I'm a Gemini woman with a Scorpio man too... anticipation I'd allotment some acumen and accord karma, as I accept begin _ account badly accessible to compassionate & growing my appropriately far 8mo. relationship. Let me acquaint you, it has been a crazy, intense, dramatic, agitated roller coaster ride with all the acute highs and acute lows!!
First thing, he is really interested in you / relationship, if you've been spending that significantly time together and enjoying eachother's company, especially if you have already known each other / had a history (high school). Scorpio's just need many time to digest and analyze their emotions and situations, "need many space" as many sites allude to, especially right after this kind of a critical move / action inside the newly budding relationship. He is probably over considering and over analyzing each and every emotion, action, interaction, reactions, etc. from the entire situation, and due to the fact Scorp's are so emotionally deep, sometimes it takes them a while to rationalize and make sense of their emotions... thus the space and have to disconnect at times. Do not consume it as being a sign of rejection / abandonment, this really is just their nature to pull away, most men are like that but especially much more so for Scorp males. Just leave them be, and most always then not, they'll be back.
Also TRUST is of paramount value to Scorpio's, and he tend not to open up and share his actual thoughts / emotions until he trusts you (and even after he does, he still would be quiet / secretive / mysterious! Possibly he feels so deeply / thinks so significantly into everything, that he's at a lost for words, or can't express all he feels into words, numerous times -- that is certainly what I think!). Also be forewarned that Scorpio's are infamous for "TESTING" their mates -- some call it mind games, some call it overly precautious / suspicious / defensive / quite serious guys... whatever it is, it happens, they do it whether they realize. They are also MOODY, cynical, prone to depression, and angry... blame it on Pluto and Mars. I believe Scorps are attracted to Gems b/c we're light & happy, and they are dark & sad... and being inside dark most of the time sucks (as it is possible to attest to inside your case with him at the moment!). They also need to believe powerful, and in Control of situations and specially of his individual emotions. They hate to think weak in themselves or sense weakness in others. His unique emotions are the most effective source of their strength but also their very best weakness, so falling in love entails a modest bit of losing control, and most will resent giving up some control (but also adore it too, as they adore to love, and intensely too... go figure). Also, beware of their stings! They can have biting remarks, sharp tongues... particularly if they believe insulted in some way (they are Incredibly SENSITIVE!!! but hide it under the guise of PRIDE and EGO!!!). Dealing having a Scorpio man, you will develop a thicker skin, a much more wry sense of humor, and also the patience of a saint!!! Even if/when you get past this modern-day impasse... hold in mind, on the ones they have feelings for, they like to tease (ie. choose on / make fun of) you to show their "playful/happy"... if nothing else, you'll actually grow stronger as an individual!!!
My booty on your bearings is that he could be falling for you, and is abashed of activity vulnerable, b/c he doesn't apperceive your intentions. Especially, don't appetite to lose a accord for a cast if that's your affair (could be what he's thinking; maybe he thinks you're alone absorbed in accidental relationships and not annihilation more). He's apparently not the best alive guy either, but as a Gemini, you can affably acquaint your artlessness / intentions / SERIOUSNESS to accomplish him feel safer for him to accessible up -- again, accepting his assurance is key. B/c you guys were bubbler / beneath the influence, conceivably he's borderline whether or not you intend it to go further. My admonition would be to argument him a 'happy' msg and ask to accommodated up for coffee / no burden / both of you guys adequate accessible place, be blessed to see him, accord him a balmy affable hug... afresh acquaint him that you absolutely amount your friendship, had a abundant time the added night (can add in wistfully / playfully, 'wish to acquaintance it while sober! b/c it would be a lot added meaningful, an acquaintance i appetite to accept with you'), and would like to see if your accord can now abound into a relationship. If you attending into his eyes, you'll be able to see the accuracy and faculty his emotions. If you don't accommodated up, you can argument him article similar, to the aftereffect of 'Just appetite to say I amount your friendship. What happened the added night was appropriate to me, although it could accept been added appropriate if I/we were sober. I don't accept in accidental sex/relationships, and accept in bluntness and sincerity. Getting to apperceive you a little bit added now, I am absorbed in seeing if we can advance a allusive relationship. However, I would accept if you don't feel the same'. Ideally, you guys will be in being back you accept a allocution agnate to this, but if not, aloof argument him article like that, and afresh aloof leave it at that. He should appear about in a day or few afterwards digesting and allegory your words. Funny affair with these guys is, alike if it seems like they're blank you, they'll still listen... aloof not acknowledge appropriate away. And be forewarned... the alliance ball with Scorp males is slooooooooooooooowwww... I like to anticipate a scorpion that is anchored until he feels safe abundant / abiding there's no casualty to advance their aperitive innards!
Also, verify out astrologycompatibilityreport.com. There are many beneficial insight into these hard Scorpio men!!! Beneficial luck! Please update on any developments!
First thing, he is really interested in you / relationship, if you've been spending that significantly time together and enjoying eachother's company, especially if you have already known each other / had a history (high school). Scorpio's just need many time to digest and analyze their emotions and situations, "need many space" as many sites allude to, especially right after this kind of a critical move / action inside the newly budding relationship. He is probably over considering and over analyzing each and every emotion, action, interaction, reactions, etc. from the entire situation, and due to the fact Scorp's are so emotionally deep, sometimes it takes them a while to rationalize and make sense of their emotions... thus the space and have to disconnect at times. Do not consume it as being a sign of rejection / abandonment, this really is just their nature to pull away, most men are like that but especially much more so for Scorp males. Just leave them be, and most always then not, they'll be back.
Also TRUST is of paramount value to Scorpio's, and he tend not to open up and share his actual thoughts / emotions until he trusts you (and even after he does, he still would be quiet / secretive / mysterious! Possibly he feels so deeply / thinks so significantly into everything, that he's at a lost for words, or can't express all he feels into words, numerous times -- that is certainly what I think!). Also be forewarned that Scorpio's are infamous for "TESTING" their mates -- some call it mind games, some call it overly precautious / suspicious / defensive / quite serious guys... whatever it is, it happens, they do it whether they realize. They are also MOODY, cynical, prone to depression, and angry... blame it on Pluto and Mars. I believe Scorps are attracted to Gems b/c we're light & happy, and they are dark & sad... and being inside dark most of the time sucks (as it is possible to attest to inside your case with him at the moment!). They also need to believe powerful, and in Control of situations and specially of his individual emotions. They hate to think weak in themselves or sense weakness in others. His unique emotions are the most effective source of their strength but also their very best weakness, so falling in love entails a modest bit of losing control, and most will resent giving up some control (but also adore it too, as they adore to love, and intensely too... go figure). Also, beware of their stings! They can have biting remarks, sharp tongues... particularly if they believe insulted in some way (they are Incredibly SENSITIVE!!! but hide it under the guise of PRIDE and EGO!!!). Dealing having a Scorpio man, you will develop a thicker skin, a much more wry sense of humor, and also the patience of a saint!!! Even if/when you get past this modern-day impasse... hold in mind, on the ones they have feelings for, they like to tease (ie. choose on / make fun of) you to show their "playful/happy"... if nothing else, you'll actually grow stronger as an individual!!!
My booty on your bearings is that he could be falling for you, and is abashed of activity vulnerable, b/c he doesn't apperceive your intentions. Especially, don't appetite to lose a accord for a cast if that's your affair (could be what he's thinking; maybe he thinks you're alone absorbed in accidental relationships and not annihilation more). He's apparently not the best alive guy either, but as a Gemini, you can affably acquaint your artlessness / intentions / SERIOUSNESS to accomplish him feel safer for him to accessible up -- again, accepting his assurance is key. B/c you guys were bubbler / beneath the influence, conceivably he's borderline whether or not you intend it to go further. My admonition would be to argument him a 'happy' msg and ask to accommodated up for coffee / no burden / both of you guys adequate accessible place, be blessed to see him, accord him a balmy affable hug... afresh acquaint him that you absolutely amount your friendship, had a abundant time the added night (can add in wistfully / playfully, 'wish to acquaintance it while sober! b/c it would be a lot added meaningful, an acquaintance i appetite to accept with you'), and would like to see if your accord can now abound into a relationship. If you attending into his eyes, you'll be able to see the accuracy and faculty his emotions. If you don't accommodated up, you can argument him article similar, to the aftereffect of 'Just appetite to say I amount your friendship. What happened the added night was appropriate to me, although it could accept been added appropriate if I/we were sober. I don't accept in accidental sex/relationships, and accept in bluntness and sincerity. Getting to apperceive you a little bit added now, I am absorbed in seeing if we can advance a allusive relationship. However, I would accept if you don't feel the same'. Ideally, you guys will be in being back you accept a allocution agnate to this, but if not, aloof argument him article like that, and afresh aloof leave it at that. He should appear about in a day or few afterwards digesting and allegory your words. Funny affair with these guys is, alike if it seems like they're blank you, they'll still listen... aloof not acknowledge appropriate away. And be forewarned... the alliance ball with Scorp males is slooooooooooooooowwww... I like to anticipate a scorpion that is anchored until he feels safe abundant / abiding there's no casualty to advance their aperitive innards!
Also, verify out astrologycompatibilityreport.com. There are many beneficial insight into these hard Scorpio men!!! Beneficial luck! Please update on any developments!
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